Thank you Lester you really made me feel a little bit better. I'm trying so hard to detach myself from him and to back off but it is just so hard because then I feel like if I stop giving him hugs and if I stay away from him then we will grow apart even more then we have already. I really hope that you are right that I can still save my marriage I just love him so much and I thought that we would grow old together. Anyway thank you so much Lester I really appreciate your advice and I will try what you said. I'm gonna have to go now because I'm starting to cry but again thank you so much.
