Please help in dealing with Hs affair!!!

[lester]

I know it's hard Nanah. But yes, detaching helps because it helps insulate you emotionally. The way I look at it now is the A is THEIR issue and you can try to help or what not but NO ONE can solve someone else's issue (this goes for drinking too) it is theirs to solve when they are ready. I know other people here have said it but is true... you need DBing to keep yourself level. I would have completely lost it if I didn't find this place. Well maybe not... mmm ok I would have but you're among friends.

Stay strong Nanah you can do this