I called and talked to S2 this morning. H said he had a little trouble falling asleep, but they just cuddled and he was fine. I think it is good that they are spending time together, even if it feels weird to me. If there is anything that will remind him of the goodness in his life here at home, it is his children. The more, the better I think. I'm trying to stay out of the way of that. I do believe his scarceness around here is strictly an avoidance of me. It's not "safe" to him. He doesn't want to be pushed in the corner. So, I'm going to keep giving him his space.
I also have to demonstrate that I believe he is capable. His place as father is crucial. By letting him take S2, I believe I demonstrated that I trust him and his abilities in this area. Hopefully I made the right decision.
Thanks everyone for your support
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9