Standing between D and DB

[Kim07]

[quote=mile_high_PMA]Thanks a lot, Kim.

Mile High~

Previously my W has left my D5 with OM to babysit.

This is something I set up a firm boundry with,,my H knows that I will not put up w/my kids being left w/someone Idon't know & am comfortable w/watching OURchildren.

The current OM is telling my D9 inappropriate jokes about being unfaithful in marriage.

Sheesh,,I don't know how he thinks he can get away w/that, that takes some balls(pardon me)! There is some real action you could take here. Sit down w/W and discuss what you heard coming from D's mouth and tell her that you are concerned who taught her that. Go on to say, you don't agree w/it, you don't think a child this young should know or worry about these things and that you will be following up w/teachers, daycare providers, etc. to let them know its' not appropriate. Remember not to be accusatory to W, just let her know what you're doing on your part.

Again, I still trust my W but I do not trust the way she is acting.

Again, don't close your eyes and use your gut feeling here,,most of the time its' right.

I do not want my girls to grow up thinking its ok to cheat on your husband.

I agree 100%,,I think in a lot of cultures its' wrong, especially this scenerio!

Hope that helps, good luck,
Kim