Update:
H calls thru the week, short but friendly convo's even laughing etc. He somehow got on the conversation of my family (asked how my sister was - cancer) and said my brother prob wants to beat him up for H's affair. I said that B doesn't have room to talk about relationships, and that sicne Sis got ill everyone wants the best for me and him. Most say that it's our business and they will pray for us, and respect us.
He liked that.
I've got all the bills to show him when he comes in a couple weeks for GD's birthday, and that his deposit was more than usual-he wasnt' concerned about it whereas in the past he kept wanting/needing more than what he had been getting. So that was odd.
Then he said he might drop by if he's up this way--? I replied "I thought you were in TN" "I am, but I might get up that way" << Hasn't ever before since the A unless it was preplanned.
Hate to have hopes, but these are good signs...or so I think.
Why would he care what my family thinks? He's never said anything before, I dunno.
I've been following DR, lots of postitive signs. Tells me he hasn't had a good nights sleep in a long time (yeah, well join the club), just up and down moments that confuse me.


H is OTR driver - 48
Me 49
married 24yrs
2 sons, 22/20
H going thru MLC