Well to me there's some advantages of consultation. It prevents her from using those lawyers I see. I'm not committed to D, I just see no movement in my M. I'm not mad or upset just tired and if a little knowledge will help me feel I have some power no matter how illusory then so be it. If I can't take it anymore I'd ask for a praecipe summons like Michelle suggested. DBing only seems to act as enabler for her and so maybe it would wake her up maybe not but at least I won't be stuck in nowheresville.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates