Incidentally.. this doesn't mean you always reject last minute invites. It just means you make plans for yourself, have a life, and be busy living it. It means you won't be available EVERY time he calls you for a last minute invite, which sends a really bad message. Sometimes when you really ARE free it's fine - just stop making sure you're always free.

Hope that makes sense.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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