Originally Posted By: Lissie2414
Are there any suggestions on how to do this?


It is not an easy task unless you get into the right frame of mind first. To do this you have to get your emotions under control, which right now can seem like an impossible task. Mind over matter type thing. Except it is mind over emotions. You have just got to work on thinking and acting with your brain, your logic. Not with your emotions. Like I said it will not be easy at first. Start to focus on more what type of thinking is controlling you behavior. Emotions or logic. Once you begin to recognize your behavior and what is controlling it, you will begin to see how it affects and controls how you act or react to any given situation. Once you begin to recognize it, you can begin to control it.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

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