Lissett & Angelica, I feel blessed that you could post. Much appreciated.
You are right, I cannot trust my W to make the right decision. She is in La La Land. Its especially hard to see this in an email from her who went to school for social work!
"While I do respect, and take into consideration your opinion regarding decisions on how to parent the kids, you must understand that by no means, am I required to follow your set of rules or standards as far as what is best for the kids or how I should live my life when the kids are in my care."
What you come to realize in going through these sitchs that are so personal is that the legal system turns such a blind eye to immoral judgement and infidelity, that its purly shocking! Yes, I am worried about my DD's physical security, but I am more worried about the lessons we are teaching them about life and love in general. what a shame!
Its all ok. where I come from, they believe in karma and I sure hope all these will be turned around someday for my W to wake up and see the light. In the meantime I am making a firm decision to move forward with my life and take the action necessary to protect my kids as best as I can.
Thanks for all your prayers.
Me 41, ring on W 36, ring off married 13 yrs Separated D9, D5 bomb May, 07 My sitch