I guess that it's actually clear to him that IF he should really be picking up an R with OW we could no longer be working together. That would actually mean that he'd give up our place. That he'd give up everything we achieved in the past 8 months.
So - please reassure me - the only way to go now is to really trust him on sorting his stuff out and DETACH. To take care of myself, get myself a LIFE again, to take care of my great & patient daughter. To be stunning, sexy, independent & clear about MY goals.
To try and not be hurt by him seing the OW. To rather call my best friend or post here when I feel desperate again.
Actually it is ALL clear to me. But it's sooooo hard to realize sometimes. And I still did not really find a way to deal with his drinking habits. So if anyone has an idea on that one and everything else, I'd be very thankful!
Please write! (he'll be coming around soon and I need support!!!)
