Sounds like Db session when as I would have expected.
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H is mad at me.
His problem.
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DB counselor suggested that perhaps goal of situation now is to not make things worse--negotiate things in a cooperative manner.
That is a tough one. Could be a Catch-22 because your H may not like the things you try to negotiate. But it is really all you have.
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H is going to have to face his role in the situation at some point.
Not necessarily. I see people who never look in the mirror. They grow old and bitter and blame everyone else for their woes. But again, not your problem.
breton, as I look back at those from here who have saved their marriages, it always seems like letting go of the situation and just doing what you have to do seems to work the best. It works best if marriages are saved and it works best if they aren't. Just go about your business and everything will be ok, one way or the other.
