Getting too busy can be a distraction that's easy to become addicted to. Things have been different w/ your H now and it's natural that you need to process them regardless of the fact that you're no longer interested in being w/ him. I think your T sounds good and knows you have to take a breather and just feel your way thru this on your own terms. Your bod seems to be telling you the same. You will be fine. Just remember to breathe.
In the meantime, congrats on the new job, Professor P!
