Why is that hilarious that you busted him poking his head over the fence!?? Oh my, how odd!! You did AMAZINGLY keeping your cool, especially for your kids' sake. That is just so weird. You did fantastic. And yes, keep up your work, its been hard, but appears to be working and worth it. I wanted so badly to R talk with H yesterday and reminded myself about the inevitable backslide. Its hard to fight what we want to really do and say, but we are all getting better.
