I will let you in on a secret, one that you already know, but one that is easy to forget.
The grass on the other side of the fence isn't much different that the side of the fence you are on. The simple fact is that there is pain involved in relationships, regardless of which grass you pick.
There is no perfect mate, although some are less flawed than others. Regardless, where there are bovine, there is lots of crap.
Here is the real rub. If you drop your current choice in lieu of another choice, the chances of you getting a better one, drop dramatically. I am not saying that it can't happen, it can. I think that Mojo will end up with a better husband. I think that fearless moved up. Still the statistics are not in your favor.
Lastly, you have to gauge just how much of the crap is being generated by you in the "find a better mate" equation. That's a bit tricky to do.
Statistically, unless there is abuse, or addiction, you are better off improving what you have.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
