Cadesmon34,

I've seen some of your sitch since I have been lurking for a while. I can't imagine having a spouse in harm's way over in Iraq with children at home - hope that he remains safe and that the progress the two of you have made so far continues... \:\)

Happen to be at work this morning - so thought I would check in...

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keep in mind that children see, hear and pick up on a lot more than we sometimes give them credit for.


That is very true. Both of our kids have mentioned that they are saddened whenever W decides to have some fun time with them and I am intentionally excluded. I make sure to tell both of them that I understand and share their feelings on this. Seeing W's body language whenever they bring this up makes me suspect that it is getting to her.

Admittedly, I haven't been doing much in the way of DBing for some time now - been focusing on maintaining my physical and emotional health as well as job stability. The good thing is that my employer has gotten a large multiyear contract which will keep things humming. Wish that the pay was better - so I still keep an eye open for something better.


Me 52, STBEX 52
D 17, S 12
M 20 years
Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009