Dreaming is Free.

[Lissie]

Frank D, I don't know what the deal is here.

I honestly and confused as to what is going on here. And you say you are not continuing it but you are.

This is the first time you post to me, and you are telling me to be impeccable with my word?

I kinda think I am.
But you are entitled to your opinion.

Perhaps this is something you might think about - whether or not you feel like anything that is said about some action you take is a 'criticism' or other negative feedback. There may be an insight her for you. I really don't know, I'm just putting it out there for you.

I didn't take anything as a negative feedback, and I don't feel criticized, so forgive me, but when my friends tell me Lis, I think you should really think about what you said, I usually do.
I will now again. I don't have a problem with that at all.

I apologize when I have made a mistake also. I don't get what bringing all this up again, has to do with anything.

I said finally a real man, and then I stated why I said that. And I Don't think I put your name in anything I said. So I don't know why you are giving me the "Four Agreements" .

It is a nice read, and I usually try to be that way.

I felt I was very careful to write it in such a way that nobody felt it was any kind of judgment on their situation. I meant to make a point that on the board, we bring our emotions and insecurities to every post, and every response.

And I kinda felt like you are pointing just me out, but maybe you are just pointing out what I said, and using it as just a general observation, it just didn't feel that way to me.

So agreeing to disagree is ok also.

I like the fact that people may not agree with me, it gives me a new way of thinking about things.

You're a good and decent woman, and I have a lot of respect for you and your actions. Please take a moment to re-read my original post, and understand that what I am saying is that when you become a person that a lot of people respect, then your words carry a lot of weight. and power.

I say what I feel, and sometimes people may agree, and sometimes they don't.

I hope I am someone that people respect, I hope that maybe one thing I say will make somebody have a better day. That is it.

"This, Finally a real man thing" must of struck a cord with you, and I don't know really why yet, it was not said towards you at all.

I know you will come back with another response, b/c I see you do that from time time to different posters, and you quote, and you usually are the one, that has to get in your last word. That is fine with me also.
I am learning how to shut it, that was one of my big lessons.

I just want to tell you that I feel I am done with this conversation, thank you for your view points have a nice day.

And, as Spider Man says: "With Great power comes great responsibility"

I am no one at all with any power. I am just a peep from this board, that is going thru a D. I have no power.

All I have is a smile for when someone needs it.