The other thing that came to mind is that, I understand you staying for the children, however, keep in mind that children see, hear and pick up on a lot more than we sometimes give them credit for. They are also learning from you what a marriage should be like and should look like.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10