Keep up with the physical skin contact and maintain eye contact. Listen to your tone of voice and stay positive. You will be happy with or without him so he will be happy just to be around you. I am proud of you. Boundaries are good but benefit of the doubt is better. If he pops his head over the fence next time yell, "Daddy's here!" As if you are announcing the Return of the Prodigal Son or something.

My H also has no things or clothes at his OW place as he just crashes there. he lies so I don't really know but this is what he and his aunt say. It is really gross even having that convo isn't it?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."