Mile High~ I'm in a similar sitch as yourself,,altho I haven't read your whole story just yet I can give you some other CO court tips. I guess it depends on what county your in. If your in Jefferson I can tell you that mediation and 1 day of child parenting classes are mandatory, if that makes you feel any better.
You also need to know that they are back-logged,,whose you're L,,maybe its' mine?!
I agree w/the others here, if you think your child is in immediate danger you will need to get something done right away. If you have enough grounds you can have your county social services do a 'welfare check'. If you're only dealing w/jealousy of OM i'm afraid your stuck in the same boat w/the rest of us,,unfortunately in CO there is no penalty for cheating on your spouse!
Let me know if I can give you anymore help, post on the boards or you can e-mail me too,,kpworkinggirl@yahoo.com
Take Care of you & your little ones,,they grow up so fast. Kim
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