My H did the same thing in the earlier part of the year and I thought he was hitting bottom then. But only now has he actually done so.
We had our big phone talk last weekend, and he said many of the same things, including the complete confusion about his state of mind over the last 2 years. He can't remember some of the things he said & did.
It sounds like you are moving on and wouldn't reconsider taking him back after the D, is that correct? I do understand that. He has put you through so much.
Just wanted to say, I do know how you feel right now. It's nice that they finally apologize for this, but...
Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
