Andy! Last week I went out. Came downstairs in a smaller sized skirt and tight black shirt with strappy sandals. Sounds slutty, but I pulled it off without looking that way. ;\) I saw H's complete double take when I came down around the corner. He was so busted. Of course, not a word. I have lost a ton of weight this summer, and everyone (work, friends, family) gush about how great I look, not a word from H.

And yes, H does the same thing, stays occupied because goodness forbid they stop and face what they have done. They would rather stay busy and blame us. Much easier on them.

Thanks for hanging out tonight.