Oh well, you know. We were both supposed to go out (separately) tonight and our sitter couldn't come. This is how it went down:
H: Is ____ coming? What time are you leaving?
Me: She couldn't come.
H: Oh ok.
H gets in the shower and proceeds to go out.
I was just discussing this that H *knows* I will pick up the slack with the kids. I would never '180' on that and he realizes this. That's fine. I know they wouldn't be as happy with any other sitter but the one we use, so I'm home. I just poured myself into the kids and we had another great time together. Between you and me, I am glad our sitter couldn't come, but I'll be going out next weekend.