I felt really bad last night as I was tucking DD into bed (before staying up to watch the Rugby). She started crying and said "Why don't you and mummy want to spend time with me, don't you love me anymore". She was all in a teary huff (mainly due to tiredness, you know how kids get, but still to say something like that).
I have tried to take up the slack, and have spent nearly all my time with DD when I am not working, but I think it is getting to her, considering our whole world revolved around her 11 months ago.
W will only have seen her for 20 mins since Thursday night to Monday evening, due to her staying with OM and friends and going out the whole time. She spent Friday night at a friends, last night and told me she was staying out tonight, and will go to work on Monday from her friends place.
Is this normal for women going through MLC?
Also, from being miss prim and proper, and quite a classy woman, she was wearing a tight "Miss Naughty" t-shirt yesterday (something she would no dare wear 11 months ago. She has also bought a t-shirt with "Yes they are real". She turns 36 next month, I don't see too many 36 years olds wearing these types of t-shirts.
I really do pity her, and know that when the reality hits when this is all over, it may hit her fairly hard when she looks back at how she handled things. But I am glad that I have been given this opportunity to spend more time with DD.
I am taking her to her best friends birthday party, and then spending the rest of the day with her.
I know that she is going through MLC, but I truly wonder if they ever do realise what they have done, and if she will ever regret things. She told a few weeks ago that she had no remorse, or regrets for doing what she has done, and that she is happy with OM. Sounds like she is going to "make" herself happy regardless, just to show everyone.
