I agree with LO do keep notes of what works and what doesn't. Like for me levity and humor seems to at least make us both comfortable around each other. Definately work on what you feel may be lacking in the marriage but only from the perspective that it will make you a better person. But realize as long as your H is in an EA your efforts will go unappreciated. The only chance any of us have is to be the best "me" we can be, that includes GAL (doing things which bring us pleasure), "AS IF" which translate to a positive attitude.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
