Wow Val,
I hope for your H's sake, he is starting to wake up.

Your H reminds me of mine more than anyone else on this board. For you H, the drugs of choice are booze and OW. For my H his drugs of choice are gambling and OW. Like yours, mine has done the back & forth thing... seemed so sincere, but could not give up OW and lied adn lied and lied to cover it up. Just plain crazy.

Anyway, I am happy to hear about his reaching out to planet Earth.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track