Thanks...
Need those hugs and encouraging words.

I am trying to put myself in the state of mind of having a roommate move in. If I could just treat him the way I treat my friends, I believe I can stabilize my emotions a little better.

I have to hang in there. A total closure on the OW contact could be just around the corner...I feel like it is more possible than ever.

Also, Retrouvaille will be a real benchmark.

The silly thing is that I am agonizing over him moving in, when I have two more weeks without him here. Really, anything can change in that time frame.

I am trying to GAL: working on my resume (H says he would like me to be able to work out of the home a couple days a week, for my own enjoyment, not especially for money), have a dear girlfriend coming to visit in a week, meeting with my pastor and his wife (who are definately supportive of waiting, praying and believing for H to change), and going to see a friend's play.

The Girl


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 11 yrs (7th year was HELL)
3 daughters
Survived Affair, 6 month separation
Rebuilt marriage
Currently stuck