w8ing:

Thank you for your support. I was a basket case on here for a long, long time. Today I actually feel good about myself and my situation. I'm much stronger than I used to be, and I like myself better. It will be alright, whether H and I reconcile or not.

If H can continue to move forward, then I think there's hope for him. He was one of the more extreme cases of MLC and I thought he was lost forever.

Only time will tell I guess.

Hang in there, w8ing. There's many wise people on this board and their advice is invaluable.

Good luck to you
Val