What more could you want than to be married to your best friend I asked and he couldn't respond.
Do you have any ideas where he's coming from on this one Mama?
A few years ago, I worked with a manufacturing consultant who observed that the changes we were trying to make in our system were "like trying to work on an engine while it's running". That's so true for us in our marriages too. We don't get to just freeze-frame and take care of a problem while everything else waits in the background. I know life is crazy. I know it's hard.
Mama, do you remember all the great things about you that have nothing to do with your H or his support/lack thereof? What can you hang on to?
