It seems and feels like a Catch 22. Stop caring about him in order to let him go but that could lead to the end of loving him. Yet once you detach your chances of healing seem better. It is risky, but it has made my life better, but only temporarily. because I am detaching, I am also feeling like I no longer want a reconciliation and divorce is inevitable. I get that feeling that says to just get it over with and start over. My head knows that is not necessarily a better solution but my heart feels abused.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."