its amazingly hard for me to think of things I like to do w/o invovling kids or H. but I'm starting to get better at it. think its going to take a while to explore fully, though.
one thing I love to do, although used to do with H, is go to the theatre...I'm off to see wicked now! yay! H bought the tix last fall and I squirreled them away once he moved out. haven't brought it up, he's either forgotten about it or doesn't have the balls to. so I asked one of my best friends to go. we're going to have few cocktails, go out to one of our favorite restaurants for dinner, and then off to the show.
H has called a few times today. he's noticed that S5 is acting up a bit, asked me if I thought it was his age and I told him no, I think its everything that is going on. I do. that's a lot for a little boy to deal with. which reminds me to get off of my butt and start looking for that play therapist for him. he's not bad, don't get me wrong, don't think he's going to be the next serial killed or something but I'd like to nip any behavioral issues in the bud, and make sure we are doing all we can for him as parents. he's the sweetest kid in the world, would like him to continue to be himself as much as possible.
lwb, I need to run now, so no chance to check out your thread. hope all is okay!
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
