So, I was at a sports bar this morning hanging out with the alumni club and GAL. Get a txt msg from the wife asking if I want to meet for lunch. That was a pleasant surprise. We had a real nice chat last night over the phone. Anyways, met the family for lunch at Famous Dave's BBQ. W says that she starting to realize how much the kids really miss me. I guess my D1.5 was chanting daddy last night quite a bit. And today S4 said he wants to have lunch with me. She also said that this wasn't just for the kids, she wanted to have lunch with me too. Before hand she would've just said no to S4 because of not wanting to be around me. So it was a real nice lunch and we all had a nice time. On the way back to where I'm staying I get another txt msg. W says if I can teach her swimming, and that she's ready to learn. We have a pool in the backyard and I guess since we have kids she want to be able to save them in case something happens. We do have a fence. Before today she has lots of anxiety with me and not wanting anything to do with me cuz I kept on slipping. So that definitely seems to be an improvement if she's happy to spend time with me. Guess I'll keep up the not slipping part and see where this goes.... I'm thinking continuous positive experiences probably help my cause....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.