Had DB session. H is mad at me. Probably doesn't like it that he is not going to be able to support himself in the lifestyle to which he had become accustomed, I'm going to be able to lead a comfortable life w/o him and he is pretty much on his own.
Guess he'll have to work that out w/the girlfriend.
DB counselor suggested that perhaps goal of situation now is to not make things worse--negotiate things in a cooperative manner.
I made some progress for a time but H is going to have to face his role in the situation at some point.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D