OF, hope things work out for you. I know I'll be a LOT poorer when the assets are split. 50/50 in my situation means I just give my 50% to her (on top of all the cash I helped her with so she could get out of her CC debts). I really never cared or looked at the money as mine or hers during the marriage, I was busy saving up for 'us' and 'our' family, I feel pretty damn betrayed.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>