Well, it's not like Mr. Mojo was pure evil. I think the problem was that he was "sweet" rather than "warm"
I certainly don't think Mr. Mojo was pure evil. I tried to formulate my statement to make that clear, and I think I did make it clear if you'll take it at face value.
I was only addressing the issue of happiness. IMHO you want a guy who is happy BEFORE he meets you and you meet him. NOT a guy who has a gaping hole inside (as I believe 4's tend to) and is looking for you to fill it.
And if this mythical guy does have times of unhappiness, as anyone does, he may look to you for comfort, fun, distraction, caring, BUT he is not looking to you to fix some chronic existential unhappiness.
I believe that's what Mr. Mojo did: he put you in charge (and you accepted the task, as is perfectly natural when you care about someone, as misguided as it may be) of fixing his world so he could be happy. Thus the notes on the coffee pot, etc. I think you want a guy who will either not be bothered by the state of the coffee pot, or else is perfectly willing to fix it himself without defining its need for fixing as some way that you have let him down.
