We are at a stalemate and what can we do now but end our M??
I think that there are many other things that you can do besides head to divorce, but I think continue living like you are right now is not an option. As the DB book says, if you don't get results, do something different. I don't think I am in the place to give advice. Maybe someone else who is still married and living with an ongoing A could help (Yoyo, Theo?). Take care of yourself and hang in there.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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