HI NNP. I am going through EAP for the counseling. I get 3 sessions free. I'll be changing health insurance soon so don't know if counseling will be covered or not. I could have been projecting... have lots of exploring to do to deal with all of this! I do like the counselor which is important. Wish she had been there when H and I first went in for joint counseling. H might have gone back (but too late now). Thanks for the encouragement. I will definietly go to my 3 free appts. Hope you're up and about soon!