Please keep being strong and do not give in to him on anything. Don't even respond when he says stupid stuff about any of this being "all your fault". IT IS NOT!!!! Your H still thinks he can bully you into what he wants. See it is ALL about him. He is ONLY interested in his best interests.
I know after my first C session I did not know what to think, I could not imagine it ever helping. I have told you how long it took me to recognize that it was. I don't much care for the fact that the C "made you feel odd" about anything. Are you sure you are not projecting how you feel about yourself?
Does your employer have an EAP (Employee Assistance Program)? Is that how you are getting to see this C?
Happy birthday to your D16. I hope everything goes well tomorrow, please do not even entertain any sort of R talk with your H.
I will be back sooner than later, I think my time in the chair is quickly coming to an end (see my sitch for explanation).
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
