Couple of updates... I post in two seperate posts.
Wife got home from work and told me not to worry that the papers said D, there was a reason for that. Still haven't gotten that explanation. She also said she felt like I didn't care, that I had been cold to her the last few days. CRAP!!!
I have to admit, I've not been very good at this, but Nuggets words really hit me!! I told her I apologize and that I just didn't know how to talk to her or how to give her what she wanted. That seemed to smooth things over.