You need to let him know you love him and want to be with him BUT at the same time you need to do it in a way that is not clingy and pursuing. Maybe an letter to him outlining how you feel, how much you care etc but also telling him that whilst you love him very much you realise he needs the space that he is requesting and so you are going to try to honour his request to allow him time to find out what he needs. I personally found that if I wrote things to my H, (I mainly emailed him when he was at work so he had time to digest what I was saying before we came in contact again), then I could really consider what I said and make sure I adopted what I felt was the right tone with him.
Something else you could do is read the book 'The Five Languages of Love'. You might find that you both show love in different ways and that although you do both love each other you don't understand each other's messages. Maybe you are showing your love but he just isn't 'getting it' for some reason.
Good Luck and keep posting.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
