Hi everyone - 5 months ago my H said he loves me but was not in love with me. He said he needed space so I gave it to him and then about 3 weeks ago I got a letter from him lawyer telling me to get a lawyer for a D. Anyway my H said that I didn't show him the love that he needed he said I didn't tell him enough that I loved him and I didn't send him little love notes and I guess he's right because after we had our 3 year old S I was really overwhelmed and just focused on the baby. After I got the letter from his lawyer I started to do the 180 by telling him all the time that I loved him and I started sending email love letters to him. These past few days he seemed kind of strange so I asked him what was wrong and after about an hour he said that I was making him feel very uncomfortable and then he told me that he had been seeing someone else when I kept asking him about it he said that he hasn't been seeing her but they have been talking a lot. I am so sad and I still love him so much is there anything I can do to save my marriage. Please someone help me I have been crying my eyes out and I dont know what to do. I would really appreciate any advice anyone can give me please help me!
