On top of that I would say STOP any needy pursuing - It tends to drive them away rather than bring then back.
I know it is hard but try to become the person he fell in love with before you had your child. Sometimes it even takes seperation to make them see what they are missing. Most people on these boards have arrived because they have been low and desperate. It is a good place to vent and get all those pent up feeling off your chest. You are with people who understand what you are going through and want to help as much as they can. This place is an absolue life line.
Both Sara and I are happily married now - there is hope; don't lose it. Do all you can to make him want to take you back, but don't pusue. Saffie
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Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
