That is so sad. And yet you are in good company, because to some extent it has happened to everyone on this board. I think the first thing to do is to start your own thread. That way people will know by the title that you are looking for help and can address it directly to you.
The way to do that is to click on the forum list at the top of the page. and that will give you all the forums. Go to either Newcomers or Infidelity and click on that. Then at the top of that page it will have a button for new topic. Click on new topic and you are ready to write.
The best advice I can give you is to pull yourself together and start living for yourself and your child. Keep busy and focus on yourself and the your son. You cannot control your husband, so you can only upset yourself by trying. Get the Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy book. Good luck.
