I feel like crap today. Not because I cannot detach, not because I I am unsure of how much better I am today as a person than when the sitch started and not because I got the ultimate kick from my MLC W.
I feel like crap because I am confused. I feel like I am trying hard to balance my body, with a foot in each of the 2 boats floating on the water - D and DB. On one hand I stand for my M, I believe in the DB principles and I want to wait out till my W sees the light at the end of the tunnel. On the other hand, I know this D the right thing to do to protect my innocent kids. They are being put in harm's way when they are with their mom acting up like a teenager.
Long story short, I gave my W an ultimatum to stop exposing my 2 DDs to her OM. This is after she decided to spend my D5's birthday with her OM despite my request to plan to do something together. She responded like a brat saying she cares little about my request and I should stop meddling with her adolescent lifestyle. You can catch my full story here:
Please tell me that I was right in setting the boundary. I would like to go to sleep in peace knowing that filing for a D is the right thing to do for me now so that I can have the court stop having her expose my DDs to OM and her alien standards.
Me 41, ring on W 36, ring off married 13 yrs Separated D9, D5 bomb May, 07 My sitch
Not because I cannot detach, not because I I am unsure of how much better I am today as a person than when the sitch started and not because I got the ultimate kick from my MLC W.
I feel like I am trying hard to balance my body, with a foot in each of the 2 boats floating on the water - D and DB. On one hand I stand for my M, I believe in the DB principles and I want to wait out till my W sees the light at the end of the tunnel. On the other hand, I know this D the right thing to do to protect my innocent kids. They are being put in harm's way when they are with their mom acting up like a teenager.