Yes, I've been watching my grandson all week, and I'll be watching him tomorrow, too.
H dropped by for a few minutes today, and my grandson went absolutely bonkers (in a good way) -- he was so happy to see him. I think it really got to my H, because they were always so close. Just picture Dino from the Flintstones.
He said he wanted to hang out with us, but he had *babysitting duty* again. He didn't seem happy about the arrangement at all, and he hesitated a bit and looked sad when he left. He called me later about a business matter, something that wasn't all that urgent, and again he seemed to just want to hear my voice. When he was on the phone with me, OW's kids were being bratty in public, and he was having a hard time getting them to behave.
Once again, he seems to be flip-flopping. Cold as ice one day, warm and fuzzy the next day.
Another positive thing was that he still wants both of us to go with our son to this big field trip next summer. Someone who really wants a divorce wouldn't make plans w/his W that far in advance, AND invest thousands of dollars in field trip expenses. I may be wrong, though.
Maybe I'm just being *temporarily* replaced?
BTW, now I get up extremely early every morning, and put on my make-up and most flattering clothes. Now it doesn't bother me as much when he makes unexpected visits. The house looks better, too.
So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6
