oh, I hear ya Cal.

Back in the fall when my H spent most of the night at my best friend's place...I pretty much lost it at the thought of having a friend stab me in the back too.

(point of fact...nothing at all happened with the two of them, she was pulling for our M and lending him an ear)

Ceb, it really is different if the OW is someone you know, worse yet if you trusted them, worse yet if you considered them a friend. It just is. And in this case the OW went ahead with your A, KNOWING that she was stabbing a "friend" in the back. That's just awful!

Cal, thanks soooo much for your excellent insights into this whole flirting business, I really, really appreciate it.

Shiny