I read on the posts about never giving up. MY WAW left seven months ago. I have no idea how to not give up. Our divorce is final in three weeks. I am working on GAL, but really, the chances of her ever coming back are almost nil. She has made up her mind, moved out, got a job, and relies on the wefare system to provide the balance of her needs. Due to our schedules I see the kids only a few hours a week.
She is dating other men (she works at a health club). It is very hard to not get caught up in letting this bother me. It's one of those thought that keep going through your mind. You want to try to find out who she is dating. Spying is not an option, beacaue she will hit me with a restraining order.