I know, at the beginning of all of this I said I already knew what I was going to do but I just wanted to talk about it with people other than my H since my H is still loyal to OW in a lot of ways - which really hurts.
He validates how I feel and understands but he doesn't think it's right or agree with me that she's a vicious, lying, manipulative, vindictive, bleep bleep bleep. I hate that he likes her. I hate that he thinks of her as a "friend". I hate that he wants to stick up for her.
In the end, I'm not the kind of person who would do that to another human being no matter how much I hate them. In fact, I don't even hate her really, I don't think I'm capable of hating someone. But, as WW said, I still struggle with the morality of the issue. Yes, I see people doing slightly illegal things all the time but, in my opinion, that is more than slightly illegal. Surfing the web at work is not a federal offense even though it might make me lose my job.
