Ceb, I can appreciate what you are saying there...
As for me, I have 2 jobs... During the day I am will win ordnairy mortgage banker... During the evening... I AM WILL WIN REALTOR...
A couple of weeks I ran in to a similar sitch, kind of...
A friend of mine at church (We will call friend G) was talking to a vistor (we will call him J)... The visitor told him that he was moving to town. G immeadiatly calls me over and tells me the sitch. I introduce my self to J and give him a card. J calls me a few days later, on my phone at the relo office, I have a trap line. It will tell me the number a person called from, incase some one leaves me a message and no number... So J calls, leaves me a different number then what was trapped... So I write down the trap number, and call J at the number provided. J and I schedule a meeting. The day of the meeting arrives and J never shows up. The next day I am talking to G telling him we had an appointment. G who's w works for the county prosacuters office tells me that J is a wanted man for fraud and forgery. G's wife T then ask me for the numbers... I am now in a delima... I have confidential information from a client that he did not give me that I received through my job. J is also wanted... I cant just give T the numbers that I received... Or can I???
SO I talk to my broker... My broker reminded me of my fiducary responsiblity to my client to keep information confidential, and told me to do what I feel is right.
The point??? Sometimes one person has to struggel with what the ones they care about feelings and doing what is moral...
Dont beat Cal up too hard... This is something I am sure she is struggeling with...
Im sure if you both sit down, you can figure out the best solution...
As for me, my friend is having a supena filed for the other phone number so I can have a clear conseince....
