BD.....you need to DB better but everyone has already told you this, so I won't bash you anymore. I don't think you did that bad though. We all slip every now and then. You said what you said now set a goal not to mention the OM for a long time. Act like he doesn't exist. Remember you want her to find you attractive and desirable. Chasing after her and looking for reassurances is neither. It's hard......really hard not to sometimes but remember it will get you nowhere. I think the new place will do you two some good. I think it will give her time to miss you and give you time to get your thoughts in order. I think that a separation in my case could help also (sometimes)but what do I know. I am just taking it day by day. On an odd note.....I was going back and forth in my head about removing my ring because she wasn't wearing hers but I decided I would take the high road and keep wearing it until it is officially over. Today I went to get a cup of coffee at work and I was walking back to my office when I felt my ring sort of pinching my finger. I looked at it and thought something was wrapped around it. Upon closer investigation....my ring has a hairline fracture...actually it is a clean break. I think when I was lifting weights at lunch the weight of the bar may have cracked it. Is someone trying to tell me something????? Well I guess maybe I made the wrong decision to wear it.
The new place sounds nice. Is it still in Germantown? What Up with the Saints???? Where was the Brees/Colston connection? I had both on my fantasy team last year. They got me a lot of points. I have Colston again this year. I don't know if I told you but I am a Vikings fan and they actually won!!! I Hate the Skins!!!
Well I have to go. Maybe we can get together for a "High Life" after work one day. My treat....I think they almost give it away anyway.