Sara, thanks. Confidence, not so sure, stubborn, yes. :P It's not bad to get a different perspective. But I just know I'm doing the right thing. And if it ends up just the W being a happier person and nothing else then so be it. I love her and I want her to be happy. If she decides that she can't be happy with me then not much I can do about it. In the end I love and care enough about her to let her choose her happiness. I know I'm a good person, a good father, and can be a great husband to her. If she can't see that and can't forgive me for my dumb mistakes then it would just be too bad.... In the meantime I can only do what I can and show her that I'm the person she wants to be with and should be with.


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93